Thursday, April 30, 2009

How to ask for a First Date

  • Ask for a Wednesday or Thursday night.
    Never ask for a first date for a Friday or Saturday night (too big as date nights) or Monday (everyone hates Mondays).
  • Offer a specific opportunity (as well as alternative days).
    If you say, "Would you like to go out sometime?" you leave yourself absolutely no out if they say no, and if they say yes, you still have to ask them out.
  • Offer options.
    Options can include the day, time, activity and transportation. Options make you sound organized without being rigid.
  • Ask for a first date a week to ten days in advance
    (but you can break this rule with impunity as the need arises).
  • Go for it if you're having a good day.
    You're cuter when you're happy and self-confidence is sexy.
  • Think KISS (Keep It Simple, Sweetie)
    All you want to do here is send a clear, gentle, but important message: I'd like to spend some time getting to know you better. Are you interested?

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Are you making your date miserable?

You can come to know if you are making your date miserable yourself. If you are doing one of the following then you are making yourself & your date miserable. Watch out!!!
  1. Whining
  2. Blaming
  3. Comparing
  4. Pouting
  5. Hollering
  6. Swearing
  7. Saying 'You always...' or 'You never...'
  8. Complaining to everyone
  9. Being passive
  10. Finding fault

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Ten ways to know you're in Love

There are ten ways with which you can know that you are in LOVE:
  1. You actually want to meet the parents.
  2. You're willing to explain why you don't want to date others.
  3. You'll ditch your little Black Book.
  4. You breathe easier when he's around.
  5. You're full of energy.
  6. You're willing to go somewhere you hate is she really wants to go.
  7. You're willing to save if you're a spendthrift and spend if you are chintzy.
  8. The idea of doing nothing together sounds terrific.
  9. You're willing to risk being yourself.