How to ask for a First Date

• Ask for a Wednesday or Thursday night.
  Never ask for a first date for a Friday or Saturday night (too big as date nights) or Monday (everyone hates Mondays).
• Offer a specific opportunity (as well as alternative days).
  If you say, "Would you like to go out sometime?" you leave yourself absolutely no out if they say no, and if they say yes, you still have to ask them out.
• Offer options.
  Options can include the day, time, activity and transportation. Options make you sound organized without being rigid.
• Ask for a first date a week to ten days in advance
  (but you can break this rule with impunity as the need arises).
• Go for it if you're having a good day.
  You're cuter when you're happy and self-confidence is sexy.
• Think KISS (Keep It Simple, Sweetie)
  All you want to do here is send a clear, gentle, but important message: I'd like to spend some time getting to know you better. Are you interested?